7 Steps To Develop A New Habit
Habit has been defined as, “a conditioned response to stimuli”
According to experts, it takes about 21 day to form a habit pattern of
medium complexity. Over the years, a simple, powerful, proven methodology has
been determined for new habit development. Here are the seven steps to make a
new habit.
First, make a decision. Decide clearly that you are going to begin acting in a specific way
100% of the time, whenever that that behavior is required. For example, if you
decide to arise early and exercise each morning, set your clock for a specific
time, and when the alarm goes off, immediately get up, put on your exercise
clothes and begin your exercise session.
Second, never allow an exception to your new habit pattern during the formative stages. Don’t make
excuses or rationalizations. Don’t let yourself off the hook. If you resolve to
get up at 6:00 am each morning, discipline yourself to get up at 6:00 AM, every
single morning until this becomes automatic.
Third, tell others that you are going to begin practicing a particular behavior. It is amazing
how much more disciplined and determined you will become when you know that
others are watching you to see if you have the willpower to follow through on
your resolution.
Fourth,
visualize yourself performing or behaving in a particular way
in a particular situation. The more often you visualize and imagine yourself
acting as if you already had the new habit, the more rapidly this new behavior
will be accepted by your subconscious mind and become automatic.
Fifth, create an affirmation that you repeat over and over to yourself. This repetition
dramatically increases the speed at which you develop the new habit. For example,
you can say something like; “I get up and get going immediately at 6:00 AM each
morning!” Repeat these words the last thing before you fall asleep. In most
cases, you will automatically wake up minutes before the alarm clock goes off,
and soon you will need no alarm clock at all.
Sixth, resolve to persist in the new behavior until it is so automatic and easy that you
actually feel uncomfortable when you do not do what you have decided to do.
Seventh, and most
important, give yourself a reward of some kind for practicing in the new
behavior. Each time you reward yourself, you reaffirm and reinforce the behavior.
Soon you begin to associate, at an unconscious level, the pleasure of the reward
with the behavior. You set up your own force field of positive consequences
that you unconsciously look forward to as the result of engaging in the
behavior or habit that you have decided upon.
Make new habit pattern development a
regular part of your life. Always be working on the development of a new habit
that can help you. Be patient with developing new habit, give it some time. Try
to change one habit at a time. One new habit per month will amount to twelve
new habits each year, sixty new life-enhancing habits every five years. At that
rate, your life would change so profoundly that you would become a whole new
person in a very positive way.
Million Dollar Habits.
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